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Many parties involved in family disputes only consider litigation as a way to resolve their legal issues. However, a whole world of possibilities exists outside the traditional form of litigation that is associated with divorce and other family law matters. Various alternative dispute resolution (ADR) methods are available, including mediation, which can offer a faster and less expensive option to resolve legal disputes.
If you would like to learn the benefits of mediation or whether you can resolve your family dispute without litigation, contact the alternative dispute resolution lawyers at STG Divorce Law. We can explain the mediation process and how we can help during your confidential consultation.
What Is Mediation?
Mediation is a form of alternative dispute resolution (ADR). It involves a neutral third party, known as a mediator, who helps parties involved in a legal dispute find common ground and reach a mutually acceptable agreement. The parties to a divorce can use a mediator outside of a court process to reach agreement on some or all of the issues in their case, and have an attorney prepare settlement documents based on that agreement which will then be incorporated into a court judgment for divorce. Also, parties who are involved in a contested divorce or other contested legal issue can go to mediation in the middle of their pending divorce case and try to work through one or multiple disputed issues in an effort to reach an agreement. If they reach an agreement, they can put the agreed upon items into a court order and ask the court to approve it.
What Are the Benefits of Mediation?
Mediation offers several benefits over traditional litigation, including:
A Faster Option
Mediation tends to be faster than litigation because the parties don’t have to perform extensive discovery (exchange of documents, depositions, and so on) nor have their attorneys attend multiple court appearances. They don’t need to wait for an open date on the court’s docket to have their matter resolved. Instead, the parties can meet whenever it’s convenient for them and the mediator’s schedule. If the parties can reach an agreement, they can present it to the court during an uncontested hearing, which is often available much sooner than contested proceedings (think weeks rather than months or years).
A Cheaper Alternative
Mediation is also usually less expensive than litigation. You have the right to have a family law attorney who can advise you of your legal rights and options during the mediation process. However, this is often much more affordable than hiring a divorce attorney from start to finish of a divorce in court. Family law attorneys are usually paid by the hour, so the more hours they spend on your case, the more you will owe. Even if your divorce lawyer is paid using fixed fees, those fees will be linked to the overall amount of work required – with a litigated process in court costing substantially more than an uncontested case. You may be able to resolve your family law matter in much less time through mediation than in multiple contested court proceedings.
Less Conflict
Mediation can provide a more amicable resolution than litigation. In litigation, the parties are adversaries and each party may seek to maximize their individual advantage. Litigation can lead to hurt feelings and stress with court proceedings, and unpleasant allegations with private details contained in pleadings that are part of the public record.
Mediation is forward-looking and focuses on creating plans for the future. The parties are encouraged to work together to reach an agreement that best suits their family. They then present their agreement to the court. Because they helped devise the agreement, they are also more likely to stick to it and avoid litigation in the future.
Enhanced Communication
Cornerstones of mediation are active listening, reframing the issues, asking open-ended questions, summarizing, brainstorming, and using neutral language. These techniques enhance communication between you and the other party, helping you to gain more understanding and resolve legal issues with less animosity.
Greater Privacy
Mediation is a more private experience than a litigated court case. In litigation, cases may be heard in open court. The public may hear the private details of your divorce or family law matter. Mediation is confidential. You, the other party, and the mediator cannot discuss the details of mediation.
Personalized Solutions
A significant benefit of mediation is that the parties can craft creative settlement terms that best suit their needs. They can tailor their agreement to best suit their family’s needs. For example, suppose a couple getting a divorce owns a home and has two school-aged children. They may decide one spouse should continue living in the home until the children graduate and then sell the house and split the proceeds. This might be a better option than the court forcing them to sell the house now and split the proceeds.
A Clear Outcome
When parties litigate a case, they allow the judge to decide how to resolve their case. They are not certain of an outcome. In contrast, parties know the outcome in mediation because they agree to the terms. They retain the power and control to determine the outcome of their case.
Family Law Matters Mediation Can Help With
Mediation has been a popular choice for civil cases for many years due to its many benefits. In the family law realm, it can be beneficial in various cases, including:
Divorce
There are many details for a couple to sort out with a divorce. Mediation can help them reach resolutions regarding:
- The distribution of marital property
- The division of marital debt
- Legal and physical custody of their children
- Spousal support (alimony)
- Child support
Child Custody
Parents may use mediation to help them reach agreements regarding physical custody and legal custody. Physical custody (in Illinois this is known as allocation of parenting time), also called “visitation” – refers to the time the children spend with each parent, while legal custody (now called “allocation of parental responsibility” in Illinois) refers to the right to make decisions about their child – in the areas of education, health care, extracurricular activities, and religion.
Parents may be able to use mediation to resolve disputes around parenting time and other child custody disputes. The mediation process may help parents reach important decisions regarding their child, including:
- How custody or allocation of parental responsibility will be allocated (shared between parents or in the control of just one parent)
- How much time each parent will have with the child (visitation or allocation of parenting time)
- Which holidays the child will share with each parent
- How the child will spend school breaks
- How the parents will vacation with the child and notify the other parent of their travel plans
- What type of religion the child will be brought up in
- Where the child will go to school
- Whether a parent will have the first option for caring for the child when the other parent is working or otherwise busy
- How childcare providers will be selected and paid for
- Who the child’s primary doctor will be
- Which parent will be responsible for the child’s health insurance and other medical expenses
- How the parents will reach future decisions regarding the child
After a successful mediation, parents may have a solid plan in place that establishes the ground rules for parenting time and parental responsibilities.
Other Family Law Matters
Mediation can also help in other family law matters, such as visitation, grandparent rights, and child support. If the parties are open-minded and willing to reach an amicable agreement, they can benefit from mediation.
However, mediation is not appropriate in all divorce-related matters. For example, if domestic violence or a party who is unwilling to compromise is involved, it may be more appropriate to pursue litigation in such legal matters. An experienced attorney can review your situation and explain if mediation is best suited to your case or if another legal avenue is more appropriate.
Why Should I Consider Mediation for My Divorce?
Mediation can help parties successfully resolve divorce matters in less time and for less money. It can also help them avoid the trauma and bitterness that accompany litigation. As such, divorcing parties can leave their marriage better emotionally and financially than they might if they litigated their case.
Our Naperville, IL mediation lawyers are committed to helping you amicably resolve your divorce. We can guide you through the process with compassion and empathy.
How the Mediation Process Works in Naperville, Illinois
During mediation, the parties are guided by a neutral third party. Divorce mediators often have backgrounds as family law lawyers, judges, counselors, who commonly deal with family conflict. They explain the mediation process and ensure that both parties are willing to negotiate in good faith.
Each party may be able to provide an opening statement regarding their viewpoint and what they hope to accomplish from the process. Next, the mediator may separate the parties in different rooms. The mediator then shuffles back and forth between each party to better understand their objectives and priorities.
Mediation sessions run about two hours, but may run longer depending on the situation. Often a mediation requires multiple meetings (either in person or remotely by video) to conclude.
The parties negotiate separately or together to resolve issues that they disagree on. The mediator serves as an intermediary; they do not take sides. The mediator is also not a judge – they don’t decide your case based on the information presented. Their goal is to help the parties reach an amicable agreement. The mediator may offer suggestions or suggest that the parties brainstorm possible solutions. However, the mediator is not an attorney for either party, and is truly neutral – so they can’t give either person legal advice. As the parties agree on different matters, the mediator compiles this information in a written agreement, known as a Memorandum of Understanding (MOU).
If the parties have lawyers, they can discuss the legal issue confidentially with them to better understand how different agreements might affect their legal rights. Their attorneys can also explain the law and the different outcomes that are possible if they litigate the issue. This will allow the parties to assess their chances and do a proper cost-benefit analysis as described in Managing Partner Raiford Dalton Palmer’s book I Just Want This Done – so they know whether the offer discussed in mediation is worth is compared to the chances of success plus the cost of a litigated matter.
After a successful mediation, the parties’ lawyers will prepare a signed written agreement (or draft agreed court order) based on the Memorandum of Understanding. They present the agreement to the court to include in their divorce decree or other court order.
Is Mediation Required in Illinois Divorce?
Judges can require parties involved in divorce to mediate their cases – typically this is only for parenting issues but has been ordered by Chicago area judges for financial matters as well. Mediation is required by court rules in custody disputes before the case proceeds to trial. However, the judge cannot force the parties to reach any particular decision. They can only agree to an agreement they find acceptable.
What Are the Steps of Mediation?
While every mediator works a little differently, the steps involved in family mediation in Naperville, Illinois usually include the following:
- Selection of a mediator – Parties can choose a mediator together, or the court can appoint one if they cannot agree. Family law experience is an important quality to look for when selecting a lawyer.
- Introduction – The mediator outlines the mediation process, discusses how confidentiality works, explains their role as a mediator and identifies the rules the parties must follow.
- Opening statements – Each party can present an opening statement about the various issues they wish to resolve during mediation and their viewpoint on their position.
- Collecting information – The mediator may ask the parties questions to clarify information and viewpoints.
- Identifying main issues – The mediator outlines the issues the parties wish to resolve.
- Negotiation sessions – The mediator facilitates discussions, helps clarify legal issues, and explores potential solutions with the parties. The parties may agree to compromise on various issues involved in their case.
- Agreement – The mediator drafts a memorandum of understanding, parenting plan, or other written explanation of the terms of the agreement. The parties then have their attorneys create the settlement documents based on the information from the mediator and submit the document to the court for approval.
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If you would like to explore your options for resolving your divorce or other family law matters, STG Divorce Law can help. Since 1994, the STG Divorce Law has provided dedicated legal services to clients throughout Naperville, Chicago, Cook County, and surrounding areas. We are focused on achieving the best possible outcome for your legal matter. Contact us today to arrange an initial consultation with a caring and experienced family lawyer.
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